What do you suggest is a good age to start?

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Stitch Disciple |
How young is too young to start collecting? |
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I have read on a few posts that of people talking about there children trading pins (are these supposed to be for kids?) and the ages go as yound as 3 years
old? Really? 3 years old? How do they know to trade and how do you assist them to trade that young? I would think older children like about 6 would start
trading? My twins will be days short of 4 years when we go (they will be 4 the day we get back on Saturday) and thinking about them with lanyards kinda scares
me for some reason. Thinking about them losing them or even pricking themsleves.
What do you suggest is a good age to start?
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Mcnut13 |
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I don't think there is a certain age for collecting. I think they see a lanyard, and would pick out what they have seen on TV or from books. If a child
can say "Mickey", they are old enough to collect!!
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flamingo210 |
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Never too young to collect. My grandmother had a doll before I was born and they knew I was a girl. Trading is a different story. When I go in Dec. with my 6.5
month old I will collect for him. If he changes later then so be it.
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happymommy |
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I agree with you Kathy. My kids love pins! They are ages 6, 4 and almost 3. We live in So Cal and go to DLR often, but they will also trade with each other
at home. My 6 year old has certain characters, namely eyeore, mr. toad and princesses, that she collects. She has a pin book where she keeps the pins she
wants to keep, and she wears her traders on a lanyard around the park. My 4 year old changes what she wants to collect every other week. She likes looking
for hidden mickeys and completing pin sets. (She usually trades a set away as soon as she has completed it so she can start looking for a new one). My
(almost) 3 year old does not try to collect anything at all. He just likes to walk around wearing his lanyard and trading with people. He trades with CMs,
and, I think because he is so young, guests often come up to him to trade. He loves it! All 3 of mine like the pin boards at DLR. We also end up talking to
other families a lot more, because the kids all seem to like to trade with each other.
I also collect, so I am kind of choosy about what I will trade. My rule of thumb for the kids, though, is that their pins are their pins. They can trade whatever they want, and I just stay out of it. (I don't want to be a hyper active 'pin coach'. I want it to be fun for them). I have intervened a couple of times when I felt that they were being pressured a little too much to trade by the pin collectors at the tables in DTD. Other than that, they are on their own, and can trade for what they like. (I do buy used traders in bulk off of ebay so that I don't pay too much for them. That way I am not that stressed about pin value). They are very polite, use their manners, and can get the pins on and off the lanyards themselves - even my 3 year old. One suggestion - take a sealable bag with you to keep lanyards in while you are walking around. My 3 are pretty active, and I found that the pins would fall of the lanyard when they were jumping around. (We lost several this way at first). I keep their pins in their bags while we are going to the attractions, and only give them their lanyards when they are going to trade. I would also start them out trading with CMs until they get the hang of it. The CMs have been very patient and helpful with my kids, and, because they don't negotiate their trades, the kids can trade for whatever they see that they want. If you don't invest too much in their pins and look at it as a fun activity rather than serious collecting, kids can have a great time trading! BTW, I have twin girls, but they are only 3 months, so they are not trading...yet. Have a great trip! Liz |
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I was collecting for my nephews as soon as they were born, and now they are a little over 1 years old. The one always made the thinkin' pose so I started
to collect pooh, and now he LOVES pooh! He will look through my book and point to a pin adn smile and of course that goes into his book
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dizbubbles |
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My youngest son starting collecting trading when he was 2...and believe me, he knew exactly what he wanted!!
He's 4 now and his tastes have changed. He now loves looking for the Hidden mickeys and collecting Star tours and Test Track pins. But all 3 of my boys have their pin collections displayed in their rooms on corkboards. They love them!!! |
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sardineface |
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You're never too young to have fun!
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DumboMania |
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I think it's never too young to start collecting. I think as long as a parent is with them and trading along side of them, then it's a great thing. My
daughter is 1 and she loves Daddy's pins. She doesn't understand what trading is but she loves flipping through the pages just looking at the
characters
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ShellKervel |
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We did not discover pins until my older 2 children were up there in age 6 and 9 yrs old. So they took to pins quickly but also lost interest quickly. The still dabble but are not enthusiaists. My youngest 2 are the twins. They just turned 2 in Febuary. When we were at the AK event in May they traded from the boards and from CMs. Kaitlyn can spot a CARS or Nemo pin at 20 paces!!! She is a RIOT!!! You can see her loaded with pins below... she SCREAMED when we took them off!!! (camera phone pic sorry for the quality!) Kayli is not so much for the lanyard wearing part but boy she likes the boards!! Shehas always had a very limited vocabulary and trading for her makes her TALK!!! To me I could not ask for anything more!!! She has a 12x12 framed, sticker covered corkboard that she "plays" with her pins on. So far the only boo-boo associated with they young ones and pins was when a pin got "lost" in the shag carpet and "found" with a foot!!!
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lucadoodlette |
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If they show interest, then they're ready to collect! If you think about it, many children have collections of some
sort: action figures, toy horses, barbies, boogers, etc.
One time I was waiting for a child to make a trade with a CM, and he turned to his mom and said, "Which pin is a good pin?" The mom turned with her arms behind her back and said, "Son, you pick what you like." Another time I saw a parent coaching their children on what pins to get off a Teal Kid's lanyard, and kid's didn't even like pins. Kinda sad, really. The only thing I have noticed is that some parents assume that because a child is young, that they can't judge a pin's value correctly. It shouldn't matter the pin's value, just let them have fun. Let them build a mini-collection that they will be proud of. However, if I gave a child a pin as a gift, I think it would be okay to express to them that the pin is a gift, and you would rather it stay with them or in the family, etc. But once it's on their lanyard, it's ultimately up to them. Have fun!
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Pindividual |
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I think that if your kids want to do it, and if they know not to put the pins in their mouths or poke themselves in the eye, then let them.
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Funoftrading |
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I say if they show interest then they are old enough.
My boys are 5 and 1 (almost 2). My youngest does not have much to do with them yet but Ethan (5 year old) LOVES them. He even has a HG pin..lol Been listening to mommy too much there I think. If he ever gets his hands on the monorail ears pin that is in my wanted box he will just be on top of the world I think. The child asks me at least once a week if I can get it for him..lol When we were talking about trading at Disney next month he said he was going to find one and trade for it..lol Poor thing does not QUITE get that he is not going to find that pin on a lanyard..
Our first trip to Disney was when he was almost 3 and he helped me trade for pins he liked but I still wore the lanyard. When he was almost 4 and we went he wore the lanyard a few times with a couple of pins and tried to learn the right way to trade then. This involved walking up to almost everyone and saying "can I see your pins" haha (some of the time the people were not cm's or did not even have on a lanyard so it was funny to see him looking all over for the pins that he assumed everyone should have.) We went again last year when he was almost 5 and he really started to get it. We would put a few pins on his shirt that he wanted each day and he was able to trade them as he liked. It was so cute to watch him do. He kept trading for princess pins for some reason.. no clue what the deal was there but we got a kick out of it. Now, in the last year since coming home from Disney is when I have really been more into collecting so he knows a lot more now and he has his own lanyard with pins for this next trip. It is hanging in his room and ready to go. He talks about all the pins he wants to find and even tells me he is going to find me so pretty pins. I am really glad he is into the whole pin thing like I am. I hope that it will last for a while..although with this most likely being the last Disney trip for a few years I am worried he will loose interest.
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lucadoodlette |
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Wow, monorail jumbos and not Buzz Lightyear or Pirates?! Impressive taste for a 5 year old! If the Monorail Ears is his
Holy Grail you were referring to, you should buy the pin and sneek it on a willing CM's lanyard so he can "trade" for it. A little magic goes a
long way when you're 5. You have a month to search for it, good luck! Post an ISO thread on the sale boards, too.
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spgailjake |
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jake started trading when he was 3. it was mostly to get him used to talking to people and to start using good manners when talking to people. and it sorta
took off from there. (got me hooked). he is about to turn 6 and he is quite a pro now. and he still gets compliments for his good manners when trading (yeah!).
we both trade now. but he wears his own lanyard and picks his own stuff. even those stinking mystery pins of his. he is the one who tells US what to trade for.
if a cm has more then 2 mystery pins. he choses his 2 and tells us we need to trade for the others.... little addict.
he loves looking for pins for other pin friends too, not just for his own collection. he would trade for brat's grandma when he was a real little guy. it made him so happy to find a dwarf for 'grandma'. i think it is kinda cool that he is into it, not only for himself. my little BOY gets excited trading for a new tink, knowing it will get to a good home
and, he pretty much picked our goofy collection. he had a goofy on his lanyard to be a trader and after a couple days it was still there. he said he wanted to keep it and collect goofy, which was always his favorite character anyway. when we got home from the trip and rearranged what we had, wouldnt you know it, most pins had goofy on them somewhere already. or had goofy as part of the sets we had. so i guess we were collecting goofy all along. it just took a 4 yr old to point it out to us
i have taught him about hm's, le's, and 'good pins'. i teach him about everything else, why not teach him all about pins. but when he goes to a lanyard its up to him what he wants. i mainly only encourage him to trade with cm's though. it is hard for him to look at the books at dtd, see a pin he wants, and not be able to get it. he is starting to understand that part of it now, although for now, when we are at dtd, he is more into spending his time at the lego store, then at the tables outside pintraders
start them young i say - have fun! gail |
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smiley |
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I have to respectfully disagree; I think there are some ages that are too young. I've seen younger kids sometimes get heartbroken by the process of
trading. Just this weekend, I had to explain to 10 and 12 year olds that I didn't wish to trade my WDI LE300 pins they had been drooling on for a couple of
lanyard pins, only to see them go away disappointed. Or being told by a mother "she's 8 years old, she doesn't have much" after she liked my
WDI LE500 jumbo. Then I'm the bad man for not being willing to trade.
PinPics ID - Smiley
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Funoftrading |
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lucadoodlette wrote: GREAT ideas! Love the idea of getting one before we go and having a cm put it on her lanyard for him. He would totally freak! hehe.. Makes me laugh just thinking of it. Will have to work on this! Thank you again for the awesome idea. |
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halloweenfiend |
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If they show an interest, no matter what age, let them get involved. There are numerous lessons that they learn with the process that they will use in life.
Skills, such as: setting goals, negotiation, memory retention, speech, manners, how to say no or yes, how to handle success or failure, math - shall I go on.
As a mother, I have encouraged my 3 & 7-year-olds to collect not for the purpose of obtaining "that holy grail", but to HAVE FUN and how to interact with people in a positive manner. So what, you have to decline my child's request - do me a favor, set a good example and do it graciously - I'll take over from there. Remember, it takes a village to raise a child. Dyma
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happymommy |
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When my kids first started pin trading, we only traded on the boards of with CMs to avoid the 'misunderstandings' when they couldn't trade for a
pin they wanted. Now that my 6 year old has been trading for awhile, she understands LEs and is starting to get the concept of trading for
'like-value' pins. My 4 year old is even starting to catch on. She is very protective of her HMs, and will only trade them for other HMs. I'm a
homeschooling mom, so any chance to incorporate learning into fun is always a plus for me!
We usually avoid the traders at the tables, because they tend to be more serious collectors, but we have lots of fun trading with guests in the park and especially with the CMs. I definitely think the parent sets the tone, though. I try not to make my kids feel 'entitled' to something just because they want it. Even when someone doesn't want to make a trade, they are usually very gracious, and my kids learn that they can still have fun even if they don't always get what they want. (an important lesson for sure!) Liz |
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lucadoodlette |
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smiley wrote:This is why my husband and I don't wear nice pins on our lanyards anymore. We would end up heartbroken when a little kid would run up wanting to trade our best pin, and because it was lopsided, we would have to turn them down. That's why we ONLY wear traders at the parks. In fact, the ones on our lanyards are often given away to those kids who are brave enough to approach us. Funny thing though, they don't want free pins, they want to trade!
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lucadoodlette wrote: I know what you mean. We had a pin we really liked on our lanyard last year on the first day. I loved that pin.. had a small boy come up with a little booster stitch pin in hand and ask if I would trade with him. I asked what he would like and sure enough he wanted that pin.. I traded him anyways but boy I hated letting that pin go.. For the rest of the trip we would put keepers away and only keep traders on the lanyard. We did enjoy giving a few away though. This year I am taking a good bit of extra traders just to give away to little ones.. I think it really leaves a good impression on Ethan...he will help me in picking the children to give them too. I even have a Tink Jumbo to give away to a little girl who I hope to find who loves Tink. I am so excited about it. I just hope the parents do not look at me like I am crazy for trying to give their child something. This happened once last year with a pin and several times when I tried to give away pre-packaged desserts from counter service places b/c they came with the dining plan but we did not want them..lol One lady I swear looked like she wanted to slap me for asking if they would like a dessert. :0 I was shocked..haha Sometimes you can't even give things away..lol |
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KelsieNHayliesMommy.heartsboard |
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My 3 and 5 year old daughters love pin trading- my 3 year old more than anything! She's my trading buddy! She looks all around DLR for CMs with lanyards
and says mommy, there's one! And usually I have to ask to look at their lanyards because she's usually too shy to speak up, but she points to one she
wants (usually all Sleeping Beauty pins) and then takes one off her lanyard and gives it to them. My 5 year old likes hunting for Hidden Mickeys- she found a
silhouette Tink on Monday and traded for it and then gave it to me because she knows I like Hidden Mickeys LOL (Wasn't trying to get that set, but
thought it was too sweet!!)
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